{"id":1221,"date":"2016-10-30T13:55:31","date_gmt":"2016-10-30T13:55:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/localhost\/w\/?p=4"},"modified":"2016-10-30T13:55:31","modified_gmt":"2016-10-30T13:55:31","slug":"nhung-quan-niem-sai-lam-nhat-ve-tinh-yeu-va-hon-nhan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/tam-ly\/nhung-quan-niem-sai-lam-nhat-ve-tinh-yeu-va-hon-nhan\/","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng cloud blog t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i sai b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9.<br \/>\nCh\u00fang ta h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi quan ni\u1ec7m cho r\u1eb1ng nam gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ee3 c\u00f2n ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef ph\u1ea3i chung th\u1ee7y tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t quan ni\u1ec7m ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai l\u1ea7m v\u00ec n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c th\u00ec lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 1vs1. Lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a theo h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n theo c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i, con c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 cha l\u1eabn m\u1eb9 n\u00ean vi\u1ec7c l\u0103ng nh\u0103ng v\u00e0 k\u00e9m chung th\u1ee7y l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 g\u00e2y tan v\u1ee1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng gi\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t &#8230; quan h\u1ec7 r\u1ed9ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt m\u00e0 con \u0111\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 \u00edt nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nu\u00f4i con. V\u00e0 con c\u00e1i trong nh\u1eefng lo\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 to kh\u1ecfe h\u01a1n con \u0111\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 con non t\u1ed1t. C\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c lo\u00e0i ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a, vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a con \u0111\u1ef1c trong nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng con non c\u00e0ng cao, v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 chung th\u1ee7y c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng l\u00ean.<br \/>\n\u0110\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb sao h\u1ecfa, ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb sao kim. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u v\u00ed von n\u00f3i l\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. Tuy v\u1eady ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129, nhu c\u1ea7u gi\u1ed1ng nhau \u1edf m\u1ecdi gi\u1edbi. Tuy v\u1eady c\u00e1c n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a trong ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 ph\u1ee5 h\u1ec7 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ph\u00e2n t\u00e1ch r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a 2 gi\u1edbi v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea5t t\u1eadn c\u1ee7a nam gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a n\u1eef gi\u1edbi. Tuy v\u1eady th\u00ec nam hay n\u1eef \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t th\u00f4i v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n nay, vai tr\u00f2 v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau gi\u1eefa 2 gi\u1edbi \u0111ang c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t.<br \/>\nTr\u00e2u \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u1ecdc ch\u1ee9 c\u1ecdc \u0111\u1eebng \u0111i t\u00ecm tr\u00e2u. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m h\u01a1i c\u0169 v\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai l\u00e0 c\u1ecdc n\u1eefa. N\u1ebfu n\u1eef gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec c\u1ea3n h\u1ecd b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m tr\u01b0\u1edbc. C\u00e1c ch\u00e0ng trai c\u0169ng kh\u00e1 th\u00edch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh l\u1eafm nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ch\u00e0ng c\u1ed5 h\u1ee7 s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ecdc th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 2 con tr\u00e2u t\u00ecm nhau th\u00f4i b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c con n\u00e0o t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y con n\u00e0o l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng.<br \/>\nM\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1eadu \u0111\u1ed1i: ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta v\u1eabn t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1eadu \u0111\u1ed1i nh\u1eb1m 2 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ch\u00ednh, th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh &#8216;k\u1ebb \u0111\u00e0o m\u1ecf&#8217;, th\u1ee9 nh\u00ec l\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Tuy v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00f4n \u0111\u0103ng h\u1eadu \u0111\u1ed1i l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m l\u1edbn. Y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<br \/>\nNam gi\u1edbi c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n c\u00f2n n\u1eef gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec c\u1ea3: nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i, con c\u00e1i lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3m xu\u1ed1ng. Th\u00eam v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng mau ch\u00e1n v\u00ec ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef  kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed7c l\u1eadp. Anh ta c\u0169ng s\u1ebd s\u1ee3 n\u1ebfu m\u00ecnh sa c\u01a1 th\u00ec v\u1ee3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecf ch\u1ed3ng con \u0111i theo k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c thay v\u00ec lao \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i con. Trong qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a, vai tr\u00f2 ki\u1ebfm \u0103n nu\u00f4i con c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 m\u1eb9 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ed1. Quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eeb ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 phong ki\u1ebfn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho r\u1eb1ng n\u1eef gi\u1edbi ch\u1ea3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u00f2n nam gi\u1edbi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<br \/>\nQuan ni\u1ec7m cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0 n\u1ea5m m\u1ed3 c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau. Quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0y chi r\u1eb1ng khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n th\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau k\u1ebft th\u00fac. Tuy v\u1eady th\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n v\u00e0 sau khi k\u1ebft h\u00f4n, t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1eabn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed k\u1ebft h\u00f4n c\u00f2n l\u00e0m t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9 m\u1eb7n trong t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f4i y\u00eau nhau th\u1eadt l\u00f2ng. H\u00f4n nh\u00e2n ch\u1ec9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. V\u1eady nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00e2u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t khoa h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m c\u00e1c hoocmon ham mu\u1ed1n \u1edf c\u1ea3 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m t\u0103ng hoocmon g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa 2 ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<br \/>\nCh\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng cloud blog t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 l\u00fd do nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0y l\u1ea1i sai b\u1ea1n&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/tam-ly\/nhung-quan-niem-sai-lam-nhat-ve-tinh-yeu-va-hon-nhan\/\">Continue Reading Nh\u1eefng quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1221","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-tam-ly"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1221","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1221"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1221\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1221"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1221"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/linhlux.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1221"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}